Esto Vir Echoes Across Area Ravaged By Deadly Tornado
A deadly EF3 tornado with wind speeds of up to 160 mph struck St. Louis, MO, on May 16, 2025, leaving a 23-mile path of destruction, five fatalities, 38 injured, 5,000 buildings damaged or demolished, and numerous people homeless.
As the city recovers and begins to rebuild, the whispered phrase Esto Vir reverberates across the rubble. The Latin term “Be a Man” isn’t just the Chaminade College Preparatory School (CCPS) motto; it is the cornerstone of its teachings. And that call to action had students, staff, and alumni stepping up to help their community.
The foundation of CCPS alumnus and famous forward for the Boston Celtics, Jayson Tatum, led the relief effort. The Jayson Tatum Foundation teamed up with Tatum’s high school alma mater, a local TV and radio station, and the St. Louis Area Foodbank.
“We are always happy to team up with Jayson’s foundation whenever and wherever we can. When we did the first one, we knew it would be a success. The outpouring of support was so incredible, we decided to do a second one,” said CCPS Marketing & Communications Manager Marty Winkler.
The first food, personal care products, and cleaning supplies drive-thru event, held on May 31, collected more than 52,000 pounds of supplies, which were then distributed to those in need through the non-profit St. Louis Area Foodbank.
Two weeks later, on June 14, another drive was held. The outpouring of donations and volunteers has been a huge help in recovery efforts organized at local churches throughout the impact zone and a centralized response center.
“Being involved in something like this speaks to the responsibility to take care of one another that comes with being part of a community. On campus, we talk about the Chaminade Family and how our students, teachers, and staff support each other and lift each other up. It’s really at the core of what we do. Our goal for every Chaminade gentleman is that they learn how to be great servant-leaders while they are here, so that when they move on in life, they become the men the world needs them to be to lead in their own communities. It’s important that we live up to that mission and serve the community of St. Louis,” said Winkler, a CCPS alumnus, class of 2005.
Three Marianist communities of brothers were in that storm zone. Thankfully, no one suffered any injuries, and all but one building escaped damage. The house at Our Lady of the Pillar Community had a tree crash through the roof, gutters bent, soffits ripped off, and no power for a week. The offices of the Marianist Province of the United States were also in the path of the tornado, but sustained only a broken fence.
It’s estimated that the tornado bludgeoned the city leaving $1.6 billion in damage. The Federal Emergency Management Agency is helping with disaster declarations and housing assistance. Click here to read the latest on the recovery efforts.
In The News
New Appointments at University of Dayton

The University of Dayton (UD) announced a new vice president for mission and rector – a role central to upholding the University’s Catholic, Marianist identity.
Bro. Tim Driscoll, a long-time Marianist educator and respected member of the University’s board of trustees, will assume the role of vice-president delegate effective Aug. 1, 2025.
After 15 years of dedicated service as vice president for mission and rector and many more years in service at UD, Fr. Jim Fitz will transition to semi-retirement by Jan. 1, 2026. Fr. Fitz will assist Bro. Driscoll in his transition during the fall semester.

Fr. Fitz’s legacy at UD is profound, extending a nearly 50-year family history of leadership that includes his brother, Bro. Ray Fitz, who served as president for 23 years. Fr. Jim, who graduated from UD in 1968, has been involved and dedicated to the University for more than 36 years.
“It’s been a gift to me to serve here,” Fr. Fitz said. “This has always been an energizing ministry and work. I’ve never thought about being here as a job — it is a vocation.”
Bro. Driscoll brings a wealth of experience to his new role. His association with UD began in 2018 when he joined the board of trustees, where he demonstrated a deep appreciation for Marianist education and a “people approach” to leadership.
“I’m excited for this challenge,” remarked Bro. Driscoll. “I’m coming into this as a bridge builder, as Pope Leo XIV said, to help us work together to strengthen our community so we can better serve our students and our mission.” Click here to read the press release.
UD’s Center for Catholic Education also has new leadership. Rhonda Mercs has been named executive director and will assume the role on July 16, 2025. Mercs brings a strong devotion to the university’s Catholic, Marianist mission and a vision for expanding the reach of the Center for Catholic Education by building upon the great work that has already been accomplished by the Center’s existing programs.
“I am honored to be selected as executive director of the Center for Catholic Education. This opportunity is a privilege to serve the mission of Catholic education,” Mercs said. “Inspired by the Marianist Charism, I want to form educators to be skilled in their profession and become deeply rooted in their faith. Through a spirit of collaboration, we will continue to empower educators to become transformative leaders who educate both hearts and minds in the tradition of Mary’s enduring ‘yes’ to God’s call.” Click here to learn more.
Making History By Uncovering It
A St. Mary’s University (StMU) alumnus claims he has a job he loves, and it all started before he was even born.
Ernesto Rodriguez III (B.A. ’96, M.A. ’04), the senior historian at the Alamo, says his family connection to the Spanish missions began with his father’s birth on the grounds of Mission San Francisco de la Espada. His father passed down his love of history and culture during family vacations to Mexico.
Though his father had a third-grade education, he was wise in the ways of the world. He advised his son to choose a career he loves over financial incentives because, “if you don’t like what you do, you will never be happy even when you’re making money.”
Rodriguez, who was baptized at Holy Rosary Catholic Church, adjacent to the University, said he was essentially raised in the arms of the Marianist community. He and his three siblings all attended StMU. It was in studying colonial-era documents written in Spanish during his Master of Arts in History that he felt a calling to the Alamo.
“Every little piece fills in the puzzle,” he said. “When you think about the Alamo story in general, and all of our stories, we’re all connected. It’s a tapestry of San Antonio, and every thread matters. You have to know where you come from to know where you’re going,” said Rodriguez. And in doing so, he’s building awareness, creating understanding, and ultimately impacting the future. Click here to read the full story.
Marianist Ministries in Action
Rooted in Service and Beauty
By Jennifer Duncan, Executive Director, Marianist Retreat & Conference Center
This past spring, 14 juniors from St. John Vianney High School took on a special project during their service time at the Marianist Retreat and Conference Center—preserving and replanting irises that have surrounded Marycliff for over 50 years.
These historic flowers, some of which had grown wild and tangled over time, were carefully dug up, transported, and lovingly replanted by the students. Their thoughtful work ensures that these beautiful, heirloom irises will continue to bloom for generations to come.
This wasn’t just gardening—it was a gift of legacy. Thanks to these young men, the beauty that has quietly graced our grounds for half a century will keep inspiring retreatants, staff, and guests with every spring bloom.
We are so grateful for their effort, care, and heart. What a blessing to have such capable hands and generous spirits helping to nurture the sacred space we call home. Thank you, Vianney juniors—you’ve planted more than flowers; you’ve planted joy.
Marianist Moments
Servants of the Lord
A warm welcome to the newest Marianist Lay Community (MLC) at St. Mary’s University. The MLC chose the name Servi Domini for its Latin meaning, “Servants of the Lord,” echoing Mary’s words to the Archangel Gabriel, “Behold, I am the servant of the Lord. Let it be done to me according to your word.”
Pictured (L-R) are Fr. John Thompson, Bro. Dan Klco, Arely Reyes, Elizabeth Gonzalez, Marie Culbreth, José Perez, and Aspirant Paul Pruski, who assisted in their formation.
First Vows
The Profession of First Vows Mass, ceremony, and celebration for Carlos Alexis Roman Altamirano and Jose Manuel Gutiérrez Manzo was held on June 7, 2025, at Our Lady of Guadalupe in Querétaro, Mexico.
They were surrounded by family, friends, brothers and sisters from the Society of Mary U.S. Province, and brothers in Mexico.
Carlos and Jose are both assigned to the Puebla, Mexico, community. Carlos will be dedicated to studying part-time with part-time ministry. Jose will focus on furthering his studies. Click here to view pictures from the event. Click here to watch a video of this special Mass.
Pray With Us
Please join us in prayer for these members of the Marianist Family.
Each year, the Society of Mary recognizes brothers and priests who are marking milestones of their first profession of vows or their priestly ordinations.
Thank you to our 2025 Jubilarians! We will highlight them over the course of the next few months in FamilyOnline.
Click here to see pictures from the Jubilee celebration in Honolulu on May 25, 2025.
As I wrote in my 50th-anniversary autobiography, I was a reluctant religious and priestly vocation. Born in Hondo, TX, in 1934, I am the oldest of seven brothers and two sisters who grew up on a farm and ranch near the hamlet of Rio Medina, TX, about 25 miles west of San Antonio. After finishing both grade school and high school at St. Louis Parish School in Castroville, TX, I went to St. Mary’s University in San Antonio in 1952 for reasons other than religious, but seeking the answer to my question, “How can I, given my talents and abilities, do the most good for the greatest number of people?”
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I was born in Wailuku, Hawaii, on the island of Maui on March 24, 1936. I grew up in Maui and professed my First Vows on August 15, 1955 in Santa Cruz, California before going on to earn Bachelor of Arts in Latin with a minor in philosophy (1963) and a Master of Arts in Latin (1971).
Twenty-four years of my Marianist service was spent teaching in both Hawaii and California, beginning in 1958 with two years at Saint Louis School in Honolulu.
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FR. THOMAS THOMSPON
My vocation is rooted in the fervent Catholic atmosphere that was part of the family, school, and parish life in Pittsburgh, PA, in the early 1950s. Brother Joe Meder was an enthusiastic religious whose weekly letters to his mother (my grandmother) and family described the daily life of a versatile grade school principal. The Sisters of Divine Providence at my home parish and school, St. Basil’s, provided a rich devotional atmosphere. I am still grateful to my piano teacher, Sr. Generosa, who introduced me to the joy of music, without which I cannot imagine life.
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“For all that has been, thanks. For all that will be, yes.” That quote from Dag Hammarskjold has always captured a milestone moment for me. As I reflect on these 70 years as a Marianist, I am grateful to God for so many blessings—too many to count—and I recall a verse from one of the Psalms: “What return shall I give the Lord for all that He has done for me? I will take up the chalice of salvation and call upon the Lord.”
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FR. PATRICK TONRY
I am impressed by how fast Jubilees come upon us. As I reflect on this, my 60th anniversary of ordination, I am almost overcome with feelings of gratitude and appreciation.
Born in Brooklyn and raised in Queens, NY, I attended St. Clement Grade School in Queens and then Mount St. John Normal School in Dayton, OH, before professing my First Vows on September 5, 1952, in Marcy, NY. I continued my studies at University of Dayton and then served at Cathedral Latin School in Cleveland, OH, for six years before entering the seminary at the University of Fribourg, Switzerland, in 1961.
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Good to Know
Grant Seed Application Available
Do you have a project that needs additional funds? The Visitation Marianist State Community may be able to help. The community of vowed Lay Marianists provides grants to projects in the following four categories:
- Strengthen Marianist Lay Communities and Networks
- Assist in building the Church
- Impact the faith and involvement of young adults in the Church
- Social Justice, including Economic Justice, Environmental Justice, and Human Rights
Grants are intended for special projects, not for general operating funds. Grant proposals must be sponsored by a member of the Marianist Family. Click here for more information or to request an application form. Applications are due by Aug. 31, 2025.
2024 Seed Grants were awarded to:
- Daniel J. Gross Catholic High School in Omaha, NE, to support building community among the students and planning a Marian garden, pilgrimage, and retreat
- Marianist Family Council of North America, to help support the convening of a Marianist Family Congress, bringing forth all three branches together for dialogue, discernment, and visioning
- Mission of Mary Cooperative in Dayton, OH, to aid in the work to prepare seeds whose growth will give life and help reduce food insecurity
You’re Invited!
Gathering in the Spirit is a monthly online meeting of Marianist Family members designed to build community through shared reflection and prayer. It’s a collaborative initiative created by the Embers Marianist Lay Community and the Marianist Lay Community of North America.
By hosting monthly faith-sharing opportunities, the Embers members make space for the Marianist Family to regularly pray, build stronger relationships with one another, and grow deeper in the Marianist Charism.
Join this prayerful experience on the first Wednesday of the month at 8 PM ET!
Please find the Zoom info for all Gathering in the Spirit meetings below:
- Zoom Link to Join
- Meeting ID: 835 9212 6586
- Passcode: Marianist
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